Category Archives: Divorce
Special Issues Faced When Divorcing a Narcissist
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a mental condition characterized by an inflated sense of importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships and a lack of empathy for others. During divorce proceedings, a narcissistic spouse may exhibit manipulative, controlling and vindictive behaviors that can present major hurdles to overcome. One of the… Read More »
How the SUNY Cap Can Affect Sharing of Post-Divorce College Expenses
In New York State, child support covers basic needs such as housing, food, clothing and education until a child reaches age 21. That can include college attendance to the extent it is within the parents’ financial ability. The SUNY Cap is a financial guideline regularly used by New York Courts to determine the maximum amount… Read More »
Who Gets the Family Home in a New York Divorce?
In a New York divorce, a process called equitable distribution is used to divide marital property fairly, not necessarily equally. This applies to the family home as well, but its unique nature presents some complexities. Unlike stocks or investments that can be easily split, a house is a single, non-liquid asset. In addition, it is… Read More »
Common Divorce Myths Debunked
Divorce is a complex and often emotionally charged process. It’s important to have accurate information about the legal process so that you can make informed decisions about your future. In this blog post, I will debunk some of the most common myths about divorce in New York State. Myth: You Must Divorce Where You Married… Read More »
Assets Not Subject to Division in a New York Divorce
In New York State, generally, property acquired during a marriage is considered marital property and is subject to equitable distribution upon divorce. This means that the court will divide the property fairly between the spouses, regardless of who contributed more to its acquisition. However, there are exceptions to this rule. If you have an asset… Read More »
What to Do When Your Divorce Involves Domestic Violence
Divorce is especially difficult if you are in a violent relationship. Your safety and the safety of your children should be your top priority. If you are experiencing domestic violence, take immediate steps to protect yourself and your kids: Seek safety: The most dangerous period for individuals in abusive relationships is when they decide to… Read More »
Parental Alienation During Divorce
Divorce is a difficult process, and when children are involved, emotions can run high. Unfortunately, some parents resort to destructive behaviors that can harm the parent-child relationship. This behavior, known as Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS), occurs when one parent influences the child to reject the other parent. In severe cases, the child may completely reject… Read More »
What to Do When You Suspect Your Ex is Hiding Assets
Divorce is never an easy process, and it becomes even more challenging when one spouse tries to hide assets to avoid equitable distribution. However, there are legal tools available to help you uncover hidden income and assets during divorce proceedings. Here’s what to do: Gather financial records: Categorize assets as “marital” (acquired during the marriage),… Read More »
Dividing Credit Card Points During Divorce
Dividing up assets during divorce can be challenging, and credit card points are often particularly difficult. While most people don’t think about credit card points as an asset, rewards can quickly add up. Unfortunately, many cards don’t allow owners to transfer points to someone else. What can you do? Separate or marital property? The first… Read More »
When to Consider Jewelry Appraisal During Divorce
Dividing marital assets can be a tough and often contentious process. However, it’s important for divorcing couples to understand the value of the assets they share. If you or your spouse own fine jewelry, it may be wise to have each piece appraised. Whether you choose to sell the jewelry and split the money or… Read More »